Living in Rhythm

Neuroscientists now understand that the parts of the brain where physical and emotional trauma are stored are not the same parts governed by our thinking mind. We now know that rhythmic experiences, such as drumming, chanting, dancing, walking, running are best practices in trauma informed care.  Daily routines are another way to ground and heal trauma. [1]

Autumn

Fall

Leaves changing colors.

Gold, burnt orange

Orange with reflections of gold, pink brown.

Changing weather

Cold, crisp, clear.

The smell of winter.

The touch of winter.

Darkness coming.

Autumn,

Fall

Fall into winter,

Fall into darkness,

Fall into yourself.

Fall into your life.

Fall into relationships.

Fall inside, into interior.

Falling, falling, falling.

Nina Massey

I met my husband at the Grand Canyon.  He was a chef and I was a waitress.  We had a love of hiking in nature in common. We hiked nearly all the trails in the canyon throughout the seasons, in the year we met. Throughout the spring, summer and early fall of 1977, we spent about 6 months hiking and backpacking together.  We journeyed across the northern United States to the Dakotas and on into Glacier National Park in Canada.  Then we traveled into the Canadian Rockies to Banff, Jasper, Mt. Assiniboine, and other areas.  Later we hiked in the Cascades, the Olympic Peninsula and Yosemite.  Finally, we returned to the Grand Canyon for a visit with friends. 

During these months, we would fill our packs with enough food for a planned hike of 5-10 days. Each time we took a different, new trail into the wilderness.  The beauty of the mountains, the smell of fresh air, the freedom without deadlines, filled our beings.  Then we would come into town, shower, eat a hot breakfast and prepare for another journey. The majority of our time was spent in the quiet of nature.  It was here that I truly learned of inner peace and communion with the beauty of the natural world. We lived by the rhythm of the day and night, of the light and dark. I learned to read the color of the light to tell time.  We accepted the variations of the weather as a normal part of life.  The stillness and quiet of the wilderness permeated our beings. 

I learned to arise at dawn and meditate and pray.  I learned that alternating stillness and movement made my body and heart feel its strongest. Walking and moving in rhythm with my breath created a feeling of deep ecstasy and contentment in my heart. A state of being arose in which mystical experiences were a natural outcome. I learned that rhythm is one of the secrets of a calm, happy life. 

The Crusader Trip

Surrounded by water

The deep greens and blues

Of the ocean depth.

The pale blue aura

Of the frozen ice,

Fallen from glaciers drifting out to sea.

The quiet expectancy

Of new wonders awaiting discovery

Exploration and contemplation.

An inner quiet, a deep peace

From a mind watching, observing

And flowing with nature.

Nina Massey

Rhythm & Memory

Our brain is a mass of neural networks producing electrical waves of energy. Our emotions and feelings affect the working of our brain by changing the chemistry and the rhythm of our brain waves.[2] Indeed, everything we do has an effect on the architecture, chemical and wave state of our brain.  By feeling deeply in our own energy field, we can begin to notice and understand our brain wave state at any current moments, and how it affects our engagement with life.  

Gamma rhythms (above 40 Hz) help us encode and retrieve memories from our senses. They produce our states of intense focus. They reduce fear and anxiety, perhaps because we are completely present in the moment, not concerned with the past or the future. They move the fastest, but have the lowest amplitudes in their wave.  They are sometimes associated with intense “feeling of blessings.”[3] Some benefits listed from gamma brain waves include improved focus, memory, sensory perceptions, happiness, inner peace and compassion. 

Beta waves (about 12-30 Hz) help control our working memory, the thoughts that are passing through our minds, as well as what information is stored in our long-term memory.[4]  They are used to become aware and concentrate, and when we are making plans and setting goals. 

A state of alpha waves (about 8-12 Hz) can calm the nervous system and make us feel more peaceful. They indicate that the mind is awake.  Aerobic exercise and daydreaming can cause a restful, idling state of mind,[5] which can be conducive to creativity and new ideas.

Theta waves (about 6-10 Hz) are present during sleep, meditation, mystical experiences and are associated with our inner wisdom.  They also work with a type of long-term memory in which we do many things by rote.[6] A common example is that once we learn to ride a bike, we can evermore ride successfully.  The memory is stored in our body, in our muscles, as well as in our brain. Creativity is enhanced by this state of being. It is a very relaxed state of being, aware but not anxious. 

Delta waves (about 0-4 Hz) are present when we are in a deep sleep. Deep compassion and empathy arise, as well as healing from the anti-aging hormones, DHEA and melatonin. 

Meditation, contemplation, and relaxing activities help us to calm our brain waves, and assist them to work in coherent rhythms that are effective for success in our daily lives. They can lead to lower stress depression and anxiety. Healing can also arise from these states of inner peace and serenity. Allow yourself to be drawn by what you love, by what makes your heart sing and be filled with loving qualities. Learning to recognize the different states and what helps them arise is very helpful for inner peace and effectively moving through our days. 

What activities are a part of your life which lead you to feel calm and in a state of blessing?   

Silent Retreat

Thoughts and ideas tumble together

In the space of allowing.

The space of ease and quietude,

Gently nourished by the soft feminine voices

And the presence of the Goddess.

There’s no need to worry too much.

Nina Massey

Rhythmic Schedules

Everyone has a biological clock which is influenced by day and night, seasons, age, etc. There are 4 main types of biologic rhythms[7] in the human body.

The circadian rhythm is the rhythm of sleep and being awake over a 24-hour period. Most people tend to feel tired and sleepy at certain times of each day.  We say that some are ‘night owls’ because they are full of energy late at night, when ‘morning people’ are most productive early in the day. These rhythms work best with regular sleeping times. 

Infradian rhythms last longer than 24 hours. An example of this biologic cycle is a woman’s menstrual cycle. Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is another infradian rhythm related to seasons. Light seems to have an influence on these cycles. 

Rhythms that occur more than once a day are called ultradian rhythms. Sleeps follows cycles of about 90 minutes, moving between slow wave and REM states, which repeat throughout the night. Other examples of ultradian cycles include temperature, pulse rate, blood circulation, and hormonal secretions. 

Rhythm which comes from inside the body without outside signals is called an endogenous cycle. Many of the rhythms mentioned above can be controlled within the body and not be affected by external influences. Exogenous rhythms are affected by outside stimulus, such as light.

The main point of the discussion of these biologic rhythms is to emphasize that we are by nature rhythmic beings.  Our bodies tend to work best when we understand our natural rhythms and facilitate them through our life style choices. Regular work hours, sleeping time, and meal time help to make our lives less stressful, and help to alleviate mood disorders.[8]

What is your natural biorhythm?  How can you adjust your daily activities to facilitate healthy, productive schedules?  

There is a place

Between sleeping and waking,

Between the worlds.

There is a sound, a tone.

Listen and you will hear it.

The pulsing wave of energy

Rising and falling into silence.

The stillness comes as a relief.

A release of movement and tension.

The calm inner stillness of total peace.

Nina Massey

Rhythmic Activities

There are many things we can do that are rhythmic, that will improve the state of our brain by increasing the healing neurotransmitters, and increasing the strength of our neural pathways.[9] New novel learning, mental stimulation and physical activity are helpful.  Walking in nature, bike riding, working out at the gym are part of a healthy lifestyle. Learning to play an instrument, puzzling out a mystery, playing video games, etc. are novel experiences that can help develop new neural pathways. 

Thinking of A.

I just wanted to see you,

To look into your eyes,

To hold your heart in mine.

I just wanted to see you,

To drink tea and love,

To tell you of my dreams.

I just wanted to see you,

To listen to your song,

To sing with you in amour.

I just wanted to see you,

To paint another memory

To hold in my heart.

Nina Massey


[1] Rhythm2Recovery.  Why Rhythm?  Retrieved from https://rhythm2recovery.com/why-rhythm/

[2] Neo, Dr. Perpetua.  5 Types of Brain Waves and Effects of Meditation on Them.  Retrieved from https://www.stylecraze.com/articles/types-brain-waves-effects-meditation/#gref

[3] Diaz, Cheyenne.  What Are Gamma Brain Waves?  Retrieved from https://blog.mindvalley.com/gamma-brain-waves/

[4] Trafton, Anne. New Study Reveals How Brain Waves Control Working Memory.  2018: MIT News. Retrieved from http://news.mit.edu/2018/new-study-reveals-how-brain-waves-control-working-memory-0126

[5] Bergland, Christopher.  Alpha Brain Waves Boost Creativity and Reduce depression.  Retrieved from https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-athletes-way/201504/alpha-brain-waves-boost-creativity-and-reduce-depression

[6] Implicit memory.  Retrieved from https://www.brainhq.com/brain-resources/memory/types-of-memory/implicit-memory

[7] States of consciousness.  Retrieved from https://www.sparknotes.com/psychology/psych101/consciousness/section2/

[8] Marino, Patrick C.  Biological Rhythms as a Basis for Mood Disorders. Retrieved from http://www.personalityresearch.org/papers/marino.html

[9] American Society on Aging.  A Healthy Lifestyle can Build a Healthy Brain.  Retrieved from https://www.asaging.org/blog/healthy-lifestyle-can-build-healthy-brain

Tuning the Heart

I was recently at a retreat where my dear friend and teacher Abraham spoke about tuning the heart.  He said that sometimes circumstances and events in life cause us to go out of tune, like a musical instrument goes out of tune when the weather and the temperature change.  We do spiritual practices to help us get back in tune with our heart and soul.  Sometimes we play music and chant, say prayers, repeat the names of God while counting on our prayer beads. We light incense and place fresh, fragrant flowers in a beautiful vase on our altar, with pictures of special beings who uplift our hearts. We can take a walk to a sacred place in nature, breathing in the elements, taking in the natural beauty. When we want to move our energy and change our vibration, we can look to those things that we know uplift our spirits. 

Sweat Lodge

Sparks flying straight upward

Amidst tall spruce and hemlock,

Carrying our prayers

To the bright stars.

Snow piled high around us,

Forming a cathedral

Surrounding us

With the purity of white.

Great Spirit

Filling us with gratitude

A circle of prayers

Heartfelt.

A moon shining bright

Surrounded by a halo

A rainbow

Lighting our path home.

Nina Massey

Nearly every spiritual path in the world today has some kind of ritual for the purpose of attunement and healing.  All rituals require a deep spiritual harmonization with the path being used. Some rituals are meant to lead us into a deeper communion with our heart and soul, and with the Divine.  They can take us from the worries, trial and tribulations of our daily lives and into a deeper state of being. 

Sacred music is frequently used to evoke a change in state. One begins to feel inspired and more peaceful while singing hymns, chanting, etc. Music therapy is also gaining popularity.  Bathing in the sounds of a gong can move energy, as well as listening to a recording of sacred music. Drumming circles are frequently used to move energy, especially moving and dancing in rhythm to a beat. 

In the Christian rituals, one is helped to attune to the being of Jesus, following some of the ways He showed in the bible, such as Mass, Baptism, communion, confession and anointing with oil. Contemplating the being of Jesus Christ and his teachings brings him into the heart brings a deep sense of peace. 

Pagan and goddess rituals often take place out in nature, using candles, incense.  A circle is cast through calling in the god/desses of each direction and asking for their protection.  Perhaps the five elements, earth, water, fire, air and ether are invoked. 

Cleansing with water is very common.  A hot soak with bath salts is a simple and easy way to clear energy.  A shower can also work.  A quick dip in the freezing North Pacific will knock a lot of ‘bad’ energy from your field.  Native Americans use a sweat lodge ceremony for purification. 

Some place all their difficulties and burden into a bowl or a basket and in a ceremonial way empty it. 

There are many different rituals and ceremonies held in every community for healing.  Setting a clear intention to hold others in the Divine light is one of the most powerful healing methods.  Inhaling Divine Light and exhaling Divine Light is another. Just make sure you are believing and participating with your whole heart.  Wanting to be healed and being willing to let go and perhaps change something is also an important part of the success of healing ceremonies. Always do this work from deep in the heart. 

The Flower of Jesus

As a flower opens it petals to the sun,

I open my heart to the light.

The beauty of the flower still appears

Even though some of its petals are bruised.

My heart feels raw from the strength of the light.

And yet the beauty of the love still glows

And fills my being.

Jesus came to heal us with love,

A flower of beauty growing in the garden,

Continuously nourished by the gardener

He is both the flower and the gardener.

Nina Massey

Concentration Practices

One of the most important ways we can train our minds to invoke clarity and purity is through concentrating on something which we find beautiful, something we love.  In today’s world many allow their minds to wander from one distraction to another.  One of the most common diversions is allowing your cell phone to ding with notifications from all your apps, and looking at it every time a message comes in. Learning not to look at your device until you are finished with a project increases productivity and creativity.  Focusing is a skill we can learn through practice.  It is one of the most important skills we can teach our children.

Being able to focus is important for developing deep relationships and learning more than superficial knowledge. Every relationship needs the caring that comes with being present and attentive, giving the fullness of being, knowing that there is something we can learn from each other.  

Being able to reflect on the points of view of others with careful, loving consideration opens the door to deeper relationships. Critical thinking requires that one be able to consider and study concepts and ideas beyond simple facts, in order to analyze and discriminate in order to make good judgments. While being engaged in a discussion, one is able to consider arguments and appraise their value.[1] If we can tactfully notice inconsistencies and determine if saying anything back is going to be effective in helping another, we can preserve the love and caring.

All of us can improve our ability to focus.  Putting down our devices while engaged in conversation with those we love is a great place to start.  Reducing the distractions in the environment is always a helpful strategy. Learning to do one thing at a time and complete it before moving on increases productivity.[2]  Beginning with short bursts of focusing, for 3 min., 5 min., 15 min., allows the brain to adjust and restructure itself.  Spreading our work and practices over longer periods of time, such as once a day, or morning and nighttime, enable us to improve by getting enough practice to change our brain without tiring or arduous work that causes us to avoid the exercise. 

The nautilus saw a pearl

In a drop of the ocean.

Opened his mouth to breathe

And became the pearl.

Every cell of its innermost being

Radiating luminescence.

Nothing exists that is not God.

There is no reality but the One.

La illaha il allah.

Out of the silence

Into the pearly essence.

Breathing out and in

Just being the Reality.

Eternally floating in the sea,

Riding the waves.

Nina Massey

Meditation

According to the scientific studies in the book, How God Changes Your Brain[3],  12 minutes of meditation daily can have significant positive affects on the neurological structure of the physical brain. It may also reduce stress enough to slow down the aging process. There are many meditation methods and practices. The main point is to relax the body and the mind, to quiet the mind enough to feel stillness and contentment. And perhaps, to open our hearts and minds to listen and feel a response from the Divine.  

Many people find it easiest to get started by joining a group.  There are many Buddhist groups in most towns.  Using the Hindu practice of Kirtan, chanting a simple mantra over and over again, as a concentration practice, followed by sitting quietly, watching the breath and feeling the heart can be a good way to start. Sitting in silence out in nature after a walk, watching the breath, listening to the natural sounds, feeling the fresh air is another way to begin. 

There is a place

Between sleeping and waking,

Between the worlds.

There is a sound, a tone.

Listen and you will hear it.

The pulsing wave of energy

Rising and falling into silence.

The stillness comes as a relief.

A release of movement and tension.

The calm inner stillness of total peace.

Nina Massey


[1] Critical Thinking Skills.  From website Skills You Need.  Retrieved from https://www.skillsyouneed.com/learn/critical-thinking.html

[2] Fighting for Focus: How to help you child learn to focus in school (and at home).  From website Oxford Learning.  Retrieved from https://www.oxfordlearning.com/how-to-help-child-focus-in-school/

[3] Newburg, Andrew M.D. and Waldman, Mark Robert.  How God Changes Your Brain.  2010: Ballantine Books.